{"id":6960,"date":"2026-05-07T21:15:24","date_gmt":"2026-05-08T02:15:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/?p=6960"},"modified":"2026-05-09T15:23:51","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T20:23:51","slug":"journalist-recalls-an-awkward-encounter-with-updike-in-rome","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/2026\/05\/07\/journalist-recalls-an-awkward-encounter-with-updike-in-rome\/","title":{"rendered":"Journalist recalls an awkward encounter with Updike in Rome"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/2026\/05\/07\/journalist-recalls-an-awkward-encounter-with-updike-in-rome\/piazza_di_spagna_rome_0004\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6961\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-6961\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/files\/2026\/05\/Piazza_di_Spagna_Rome_0004-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/files\/2026\/05\/Piazza_di_Spagna_Rome_0004-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/files\/2026\/05\/Piazza_di_Spagna_Rome_0004-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/files\/2026\/05\/Piazza_di_Spagna_Rome_0004.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>In addition to English, Rome-based freelance journalist Eric J. Lyman is fluent in Spanish and Italian. But words in any language seemed just shy of his reach when in spring, circa 2003-05, he &#8220;spotted John Updike having lunch near the Spanish Steps.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He was seated at an outdoor table with a woman in her 50s. Short sandy hair, navy-blue blazer. She could have been his Italian publisher or agent. He wore a plaid coat and a pale tie. They were talking easily. Their plates were gone, but the water glasses were still on the table, along with a small, neat stack of books.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Lyman said that as he approached them and considered a possible introductory line, &#8220;They both looked up before I could make a sound. And I suddenly froze, then turned, then disappeared around the corner.&#8221; More aborted attempts followed\u2014an unusual thing to happen to a seasoned journalist. As Lyman wrote, &#8220;I don&#8217;t rattle easily. I&#8217;ve covered wars, jumped out of airplanes. I&#8217;ve interviewed presidents, been blessed by a pope, attended parties with Hollywood celebrities,&#8221; so this was new territory for him. But don&#8217;t feel too bad, Mr. Lyman. Despite your awkward encounter, at least you fared better than F. Scott Fitzgerald&#8217;s character Dick Diver, who, in <em>Tender Is the Night, <\/em>got into a drunken brawl with taxi drivers at the top of the Spanish Steps.<\/p>\n<p>Read the whole essay, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.italiandispatch.com\/p\/the-writer-who-knew-too-much\">&#8220;The Writer Who Knew Too Much: A story about losing my nerve among the literary ghosts around the Spanish Steps,&#8221;<\/a> posted on Lyman&#8217;s blog, <em>The ITALIAN DISPATCH<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In addition to English, Rome-based freelance journalist Eric J. Lyman is fluent in Spanish and Italian. But words in any language seemed just shy of his reach when in spring, circa 2003-05, he &#8220;spotted John Updike having lunch near the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/2026\/05\/07\/journalist-recalls-an-awkward-encounter-with-updike-in-rome\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":818,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,67,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-first-person-singular","category-travel","category-updikes-life-times"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6960","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/818"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6960"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6960\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6964,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6960\/revisions\/6964"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6960"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6960"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.iwu.edu\/johnupdikesociety\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6960"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}